Your skin got injured, thus it bleeds.
Then it forms into a wound.
While the wound is still there, it is sensitive to pain.
This sensitivity will remain at that wound,
until it heals, by His will.
The same goes to shattered relationships.
When the wound gets pricked again,
it feels painful, for sure;
until the wound is healed, gone.
Self-motivation is not self-deceiving,
but an antibiotic, continuously taken;
until the wound is healed.